Common Mistakes on Dating Apps

We all have made mistakes on dating apps, are no hard and fast rules dictating when and how to take a conversation off an app, but attempting to do so too early can work to your disadvantage. No, you don’t want to get stuck in an endless back and forth on the app where your chat will eventually get lost in between all your other matches, but weary swipers may be reluctant to add yet another “Matt Tinder” or “Maybe: Matt” to their phone. In my own expert opinion, numbers should be exchanged when you are ready to make plans to meet in person — which may very well (and I’d argue, probably should) happen relatively shortly after matching. The key is not to just ask for someone’s number only to then continue the same back and forth on a different platform. If that’s all you’re interested in, the in-app chat feature will do just fine; it’s not actually “so hard to text on here.”

This isn’t about being shallow or superficial. We all have preferences about physical appearance and those preferences aren’t inherently bad or shameful or less important. This is about not being a huge jerk. Matters of physical appearance, especially weight and body type, can be extremely fraught and emotionally charged topics for people. It is completely unnecessary to go around stating your physical demands in your dating app bio (and yes, this goes for women who establish “deal-breakers” about men’s height too). Many dating apps allow you to privately filter based on height anyway, and a few allow you to filter based on body type as well. Again, it’s completely fine to have and act on these preferences, but there’s literally nothing to be gained from mentioning them in your profile. If you don’t have anything nice to say, just only match with people who suit your fancy and leave everyone else alone. Read more…

When it comes to attracting women it is easier said than done without the right strategies. Now a days you can find an overload of dating tips and seduction tips from pick up artists all over the internet. A lot of the advice that comes from these so-called gurus are counterintuitive to the laws of attraction, and nothing more than dating mistakes.
The honest truth is that women are able to decide which kind men they are sexually attracted to within the first five minutes of meeting them.
Obviously there is a right and a wrong way to approach women, if you want to create a sexually tension upon the first encounter. The best ways to create this kind of attraction with women is through seduction and flirting.
Here are three the most frequent dating mistakes made by men. Overcome these obstacles and I guarantee your love life will improve significantly:
Stop Lying
Stop lying to females. Lying will never get you ahead in life and it sure will not help you get ahead with the ladies. This is only going to damage your credibility, and she will eventually find out the truth and label you as a “LIAR”.
There is nothing worse than being caught in a lie. Most people tell lies to avoid discomfort that goes along with being truthful. So, it in your best benefit to be as honest with women as you can be at the beginning.
If you are dating or involved with multiple women in your life, do not lie about your life style to her. Let her know that she is not the only women in your life. If she is okay with sharing you with other girls, that great news for you, but if not it will be in your best interest to move on and not waste your time.
Having Low Confidence
Women go crazy over men that carry themselves with a high level of Confidence. Females love men that takes charge of situations and does not have to seek approval from others.
There is also a thin line between being confident and cocky. Being confident means that you do not need to show off and boast about your abilities. While having a cocky personality portrays that you are arrogant jerk.
Not Making the 1st Move
Women rarely make the first move on guys that they are interested in. Majority of the time they will do subtle gestures to give hint to men to show they are interested.
The only way to approve your game is to start approaching more women and engage in a conversation with them. Girls like the thrill of being chased after and the majority of women expect for men to start hitting on them.
The more women you approach, more confidence you will gain. You will defiantly began to lose the fear of talking to new women and you will not be as nervous or shy to speak to an attractive girl you are interested in.
Final Thoughts
Also try to pursue the women that you are attracted to. Everyone will make mistake but, you must learn from your shortcomings and fix them. Soon enough you will be an expert and dating the girl of your dreams.

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